#HARAJUKU

Yokito Top, Gucci glasses, Tiffany bracelet, layered gold

gold jewelry, gold bling, layered necklaces

I learned a lot when deciding what to title this little post. It’s not really a specific look with an official style name. However, it is an Asian inspired Yokito blouse from Johnny Was… so for some reason, Harajuku Girl came to mind. From that I learned the following;

1. Harajuku is a district in Shibuya, Tokyo, Japan. Harajuku is the common name given to a geographic area spreading from Harajuku Station to Omotesando….
2. Harajuku has gained a reputation for being the center of alternative fashion such as decorer, gothic lolita, and punk. But in reality, it’s much less strange than you’d think!

Basically, the Harajuku girl alternative fashion is a rebellion against the expected status quo and I can get behind that. 🙂

Meanwhile, here I am back in Texas…constantly being told that I don’t fit in or look like regular people do. I guess that I’ve always had a weird, fun, I don’t give a shit type of streak that has never gone away. My brother claims I still have a Cyndi Lauper look ever since she popped on the scene back in the day.  I guess she was the original Harajuku girl if we were ever to trace it back.

When I get dressed quickly, the wildest things get worn together.  Another person might throw on a white t-shirt with gray sweat pants to run out the door, but I do not own those things. I guess that’s how fun and quirky looks get created.  I want to be cute, but I want to be comfortable, but I want to…never wear cotton…it’s just super common to me…yet I’m rushing, yet I then grab a nice pair of glasses and then it is all ok because they are a force field between me and the world.

Then there’s the gold thing.  My cross never comes off.  The pendant was a gift from my husband.  It was his father’s and if I lose it, I should just run away from home.  In an effort to not have to run away from home…I just wear it most every day. Plus, it has Jesus on it so there is that. The mini krugerrand coin was a find at a Pawn Shop last year. I believe in gold. I believe the dollar will fall and it’s amazing that it hasn’t done so already.  Whatever the new currency will be… it will be backed by gold. Period.  So gold is my thing for a lot of reasons.  I feel like the value of gold is clearly being held back, and once it can’t be held down anymore, gold will be better than cash.  Cash in the bank will take a huge haircut so gold is a hedge.

Basically, what I am saying is that gold is fashion but it’s so much more. I try not to be attached to things but I enjoy them while I have them.

During the visit from Hurricane Harvey a few weeks back, I heard that you only get to take one bag with you if you are rescued by boat. One night, in the middle of the night, it rained so hard nonstop…so I decided that we needed a plan.  I have two hands…there would be a dog in each one and everything else could go to hell for all I cared. Possessions are not everything and once you’re dead – they are nothing, so we can’t get too wrapped up.

We ended up fine with no flooding and we are very thankful.  Others were not so lucky.  The whole thing really makes you think about possessions and things and how much we spend as well as how it could all be gone tomorrow so we can’t invest everything in any one area.

That being said…nothing shown here is new! The really cool silk top is from Johnny Was last year, and I have only worn her a few times. the Calvin Klein blazer is previously shown, as are the shoes from Gianni Bini and the Tory Burch bag.

I’m super behind on posts and have a closet full of super cool things to share that I’ve gotten over the past year!

My Bosscat Beauty eyelash line is set to finally launch in October so I really want to continue with the blog, but also adding in videos and posts for Bosscat so stay tuned!

-SDS

Share this post!

BLACK SUMMER 2017

Johnny Was Kimono, over 40, Kate Spade Earrings, black tank swim suit, swim suit, pool side, cover up, black nails
Johnny Was Kimono, over 40, Kate Spade Earrings, black tank swim suit, swim suit, pool side, cover up, black nails,
Johnny Was Kimono, over 40, Kate Spade Earrings, black tank swim suit, swim suit, pool side, cover up, black nails, embroidery

Johnny Was Kimono, over 40, Kate Spade Earrings, black tank swim suit, swim suit, pool side, cover up, black nails, Stephanie Sjoberg, Texas blogger, over 40, David Yurman ring, Tiffany & Co bracelet, glam, summer
Johnny Was Kimono, over 40, Kate Spade Earrings, black tank swim suit, swim suit, pool side, cover up, black nails, Stephanie Sjoberg, over 40 bloggers, over 40 swim suit, Kate Spade Earings, Tiffany & Co bracelet, gold jewelry, swim suit over 40
planter ideas, Houston gardening, planter glam, planter ideas, Luxor Living and Style
Kate Spade earrings, David Yurman ring, gold coin necklace, pool glam, over 40 bloggers, white blonde,

Black is for summer. Especially pool side because its so forgiving! Typically, when I get home from work, I throw on a swim suit – typically the black “Granny” suit you see above. I then go outside to water my flowers and plants, let the girls float on their floats – sometime I do it with them, and together we suck what daylight, peace and joy is left out of the day!

I actually bought one of those huge pink swan floats and the dogs get excited when I get a towel and drag it to the pool. Its very undignified but its relaxing and it has become our thing. Of course we take pictures for proof of our fun together, but it’s so eccentric in appearance to be sunbathing on a swan float with dogs, wine and catching up on the day’s infowars.com Youtube videos…

The black Johnny Was Kimono is a summer staple for me. I wore it to work over a sheer, black mini dress, then threw it on while outside over the black swim suit. As to the mini dress… it’s just a few inches above the knee.  I have about 1 1/2 more years before my knees will sag to the point of needing to be concealed forever, unless I get a knee-tuck.) Its versatile, light weight and has great colored embroidery. I try to not totally fry my transparent skin in the sun, so its a perfect cover until the sun goes down!

My husband came out, and we decided to shoot a mini blog post in 5 minutes and I literally still had on the large Kate Spade earrings because I had simply not removed them yet! They are super light and I think they are fun!

It is getting super difficult to take blog photos lately. I am trying to make it about the items and not about me because I am not that interesting or lovely.  There are a lot of posts on decor or other things that do not require I be in photos and that makes me happy.

Initially, when I started the site,  I had decided that there would be no future run for a senate seat so I could post whatever I like and it wouldn’t matter in the end.  However, I am beginning to feel over qualified for a seat somewhere after seeing the insane ramblings of people such as Nancy Pelosi, Maxine Waters and Sheila Jackson Lee.   And where is the part in which they pack up and go home?  Maxine Waters is 78.  She’s been accused of ethics violations in the past, which basically all stem around using her position for personal gain. Yet, she continues to throw out baseless claims and shout “impeachment” about Trump. I do not think she knows what impeachment actually is, based on her interviews about the subject. At a certain point, these people need to be shown the door. A cognitive understanding assessment needs to be given to people past a certain age, period.  For her to question his mental health, s insane when she exhibits less mental capacity than he does by far.

Interestingly enough, a bill is to be introduced by Rep Ted Lieu to subject the president to mental health evaluations.  I wonder if they realize this should be across the board? A lot of people wouldn’t have positions anymore, and that would be a great thing.

Enjoy your summer and try to suck a little joy out of every day!
-SDS

Share this post!

POP OF FUN

IMG_3506-1Johnny Was dress, Gianni Bini shoes, red shoes, Johnny Was bag, David Yurman ring

bohowhite2-3492 Johnny Was scarf, Bag from Johnny Was, white dress, Johnny Was Houston,

bohowhite7-3490

How often does one have life events which call for a very sheer, white fringed dress?  Hardly never. There’s no good way to wear a bra with such a dress, so I opted for a scarf so I wouldn’t be too exposed.  Then there’s the shoes. I have worn them once. But my husband loves them so I threw them on as well.  Then there’s the bag, which already had everything in it…so I grabbed it and ran out the door.

We were only going mattress shopping so there was no one else to impress. It turned out to be a whimsical and fun outfit so I thought I’d post it.

-SDS

YOU MAY HAVE MISSED…

boho fashion blog Prada red bag, Houston blog bluebird6

Share this post!