Dress by Johnny Was, gold charm bracelet Tiffany & Co, ring David Yurman Couture, silver bracelet by Thierry Mugler, silver scroll bracelet by Brighton Accesories, wrap shown here, boots by Guess
-SDS
YOU MAY HAVE MISSED……
dress by Forever 21, shoes by Steve Madden, bag Michael Kors, lip color is Miley Cyrus (kill me now but I love the color)
A lot of times, I opt to say nothing when I blog, because I must be careful of my mood. If someone recently has made me into a negative mindset, then I best say nothing because I have been known to vent.
I also tend to be bothered by the fact that Blair Eadie never says anything, I mean anything, on her blog…yet her top competition says an awful lot on Cupcake and Cashmere. I see the merit in both. I try to be myself….well, I am myself and there’s nothing I can do about that…but I try to learn from the partnership and collaboration efforts of these two who are completely different from each other in the ways they have created their empires. I think Blair keeps her mouth shut to keep it serious and about the fashion, but I’m an everything person so it’s about the fashion, the price point, the makeup, a bargain sometimes and beauty, nature, food and such. Because of this, I find it hard sometimes to offer no thoughts.
Most people have no clue why some of us “blog.” I think most people will agree…photographing yourself is the most terrible part! Worrying about being judged incorrectly is a hassle. Most of blogging is not about look at me, aren’t I fabulous….it’s more about look at these cool Gucci glasses, cheap dress and blue nails…isn’t this fun?! It’s about personal ideas and viewpoints.
I spent a few days in Dallas in which my step mother made plenty of remarks about my blog life. Questions such as “Who takes the pictures?” or comments like “Your face looks airbrushed” or “How much money do you make?” I think the funniest part, is that while people don’t really get it, they all want their photo shoot and makeup done. Ugh. Primarily, the blog helps to expose what I do, who I am and what I enjoy. It’s a platform for beauty and cosmetics experience, photography work, and years spent in fashion, decor and real estate.
Mainly, as hard as it sometimes is, my very hyper husband takes the photos. I do not believe in airbrushing. I do, however, believe in great angles, lighting and of course…makeup. I have very pale skin so in a flash or sunlight, I glow like an angel, therefore, since the light is reflective on pale skin, I pretty much just take good pictures. Oh, and I am a makeup artist. As far as how much money I make, that is complex. I do a lot of different things so there are different income streams. The trick in life is developing income streams and minimizing outgoing expenses! (Hence, the $23 dress from Forever 21) I am currently scaling back on work efforts and narrowing my focus.
This month, was weird for me. I did too much for too long and sort of imploded. Our house is totally torn up right now with a remodel project that should be done by the end of the week, and I am starting work for a new company at the end of the week as well, and I am totally excited about it! The name of the company I am going to is Johnny Was, and I will be blogging a lot of Johnny Was fashion in the future!
I am to the point in life, where I am being me…in every way possible. I’m smart, but I don’t need to look smart to be happy. If I want a chicken coup in my back yard, then I damn well will get a chicken coup and fancy chickens with hair feathers! (Everyone thinks this is weird, by the way.) Years ago, my husband and I had a tons of Emu pairs laying eggs on our farm. I would collect the huge green eggs and incubate them, eventually helping give life to zillions of emu chicks! It was the coolest thing ever! I had a room set up like a lab with about 5 incubators cooking about 125 eggs all at any given time. Maybe this is why I’m hell bent on setting up a chicken house now. That, and having eggs for the apocalypse I suppose. My husband is completely against my chicken proposal but when I ask him why I can’t have a few chickens…he can’t give an answer. (I think he’s scared of them or the commitment they bring.) The point though, is that I do what I want.
Some days, I want to be comfortable and fun…like this day. I bought this black dress from Forever 21 with the sole intent of wearing it around the house. It’s comfortable and stretchy and presentable. It appears that I have spoiled my husband and now he fully expects me to be somewhat presentable and a little sexy at all times. However, this looked so cute that I decided to wear it out a few times before I retired it to the “house moo moo” collection. It literally cost about $23. We decided at the last minute to go somewhere so I got ready in 35 minutes. At what age should one put away animal print Steve Madden platforms? I’m not sure. The last two weeks have been a total whirlwind for me and it was sort of a Fuck Everything day. We went down the street to Old Town Spring to grab a snack and a beer and enjoy the Christmas decorations. I don’t need to look serious, because I already am so serious that it hurts about things that matter…God, love, finances, health, the future, sex and relationships …but not necessarily in that order!
-SDS
YOU MAY HAVE MISSED…
1. REBEL
I absolutely loved finding a dress for $9 from Forever 21. I feel like…well I am a rebel. This shot is from a quick post called REBEL that I did to style my new $9.00 dress from Forever 21. I like to wear what I want, do what I want and not be told what to do. I think it’s cool to save a lot of money on a dress to compensate for the occasional nice shoe or handbag, or vacation. And then of course, there is the four tiered pony tail combo that my friends all laugh about. I do me.
2. FATHER’S DAY TEXT
I worked on Father’s Day so I didn’t have time to go to Dallas to visit my Dad that weekend. I did, however, send him a quick text. I am impressed that my dad knows how to choose and use emoticons, and yes, he will kill me if he sees this post. I actually shared a screenshot of this on my Instagram account, but of course my family doesn’t read my blog or look at my Instagram and do not even understand that I rep products and companies, I’m sure they assume I am just a narcissist. I would like to add, that no…none of us believe in abortion, especially my dad. My mom and dad got pregnant with my brother before getting married, and then about 5 weeks after he was born, they got pregnant with me. I guess it took a while to figure out where babies come from. Either way, that was the pretext for the funny text I sent about not aborting me!
3. HUGH’S LANDING, THE WOODLANDS
There is a fabulous new area of The Woodland’s called Hughes Landing. I’ve been hanging out there a lot lately because they have fabulous new apartments, and I’ve had some clients interested in renting. There have also been a few great restaurants opening up there, and the blog post for Hugh’s Landing is coming up! I took this shot on a Monday night before a huge storm came through. My friends love to go to Del Frisco’s Grille and if you were in the market for romance, the views are conducive to such matters. Actually, if I wanted another husband, I might be able to pluck one from there, Just sayin. The food isn’t bad either! There’s also other great places, which will all be listed on the next post!
4. BIKINI POLITICS
The quickie post we decided to do from The Golden Nugget Hotel in Lake Charles, was derived from the realization that some people just love to strip down and get naked at pool time in front of strangers. I…do…not. I sort of feel that you need to know me, love me and pay my bills to earn the right to judge my nakedness. So I survived pool day, and you can check the Bikini Politics blog here.
5. IT’S EXPENSIVE TO BE ME
“It’s expensive to be me,” was a reply by Anna Nicole Smith in court trying to fight for her money from her dead “husband” and justify her expensive costs of living. I laughed and it stuck with me. Being a rebel, when we were told at work to do whatever you want, but please do not chew gum…it made me want to chew gum daily. I developed a fetish for those little hard Mexican gum bits. As I was driving down the road, close to 4pm, I bit down the wrong way, and cracked a crown…which took the tooth with it. Ugh. My bad. I had taken this picture to send to friends because we had plans to go out that night and I was not going! I could not get to the dentist that night, glued the crown/tooth back in until the next day…but could not eat dinner with them, but of course, I had drinks. I literally remember nothing from that night. Chewing hard little banana flavored gum like a crack addict ended up costing me a lot of money. I have been to the dentist about 5 times this past month and I wanted to keep it real, and show that everything is not perfect in my world. I’ve got problems and challenges here and there, I just don’t blast them across the internet. This really sucked.
6. DAVID YURMAN COUTURE
I’ve had this lavender amethyst David Yurman Couture Collection ring for about 6 years. I saw it in the window at their Houston Galleria location, and fell in love. The past few years, I didn’t wear it much because I was scared of shattering the edge of the stone, because it is a delicate design. I kept meeting ladies with beautiful Yurman pieces on, and was constantly told about the quality assurance policy from the Yurman company, so I took it out of my safety deposit box, wore it for a week….and of course, looked down, and realized the stone was chipped. I took it to the Yurman Galleria store it was purchased from…not really knowing what they would or could do. In my particular case, they replaced the stone. I was so excited to get this ring back after being gone for 4 months, but 4 months was nothing to wait for a complete repair. I am emotionally attached to this bauble (which is so wrong, yes…I know) and I have new respect for the David Yurman company.
-SDS
Glasses by Gucci, Dress by Forever 21, Blazer by Ann Taylor, bracelet by Tiffany Co, lip color is Arthur by Chanel, shoes by Vince Camuto
watch by Michael Kors, ring David Yurman Couture
I was so excited to run through Forever 21 last week, see a cute animal print little thing to be able to throw on this summer and then get up to the register to find that it was only $9.00. Wow. That’s never happened before.
I threw it on with a white Ann Taylor jacket, simply because at work you can not show armpits. I am already not a fan of armpits anyway, so whatever.
The Vince Camuto booties are comfortable for all day, hard use so they are a staple these days.
I feel jazzed when I get a cheap find that compensates for expensive bags, glasses or shoes!
However, on to another topic…my hurr. People it’s hot and humid. When I wear just one pony tail, it’s heavy and won’t stay in place. To me, one pony is sort of dated. So I wore two one day, and friends laughed at my new attempt to be edgy and fun. So, being a rebel I eventually graduated to three and then four tiers of pony tails! My friend Sonja is tickled by what she refers to as my 80’s hair. I wasn’t aware it was an 80’s thing, it’s just a me thing. BAM! I figure it’s fun and easy for summer, and I’m really about being easy, but not sloppy. So comments are welcome on the pony tail debate, because I’d love to share your comments with my friends for a laugh!
-SDS
1. TAMARAC PARK, THE WOODLANDS
2. REBELLIOUS
3. ESHAKTI
This shot is from a post on my Facebook page.
I just spent two hours at Legacy Prep School in The Woodlands with KS Tennis since it was the last day of the season. Kids are adorable but have ZERO filter, so these are the questions I was asked;
Kids: Are you rich?
Me: No.
Kids: Are you sure? You look rich.
Me: Pretty sure. I am wearing Chanel lipstick in “Arthur”…so I guess I look rich.
Kids: Do you have kids?
Me: No.
Kids: Why not?
Me: Because Coach Ken is too old.
Kids: But he’s really good with small kids!
Me: Well then if someone leaves one on our doorstep, I guess we’ll keep it .
……..so then these kids start explaining how to foster babies and sometimes you get to keep them! I’m good…I promise!
5. BARBIE MAKEUP
I have worked in cosmetics for years and decided to work on a fun, Barbie style makeup tutorial for my YouTube channel!
6. DEL FRISCOS GRILL / HUGHES LANDING
We were excited to be invited to a VIP party at the new Del Frisco’s Grill in The Woodlands last week! The views are amazing, the food is top notch and we had a really, really good time. The restaurant design is fantastic and it’s a very romantic, yet industrial look and feel. I will be doing a blog posting on the new Hughes Landing area of The Woodlands very soon with more photos.
