-SDS
YOU MAY HAVE MISSED….
1. VAMP
This is just a shot from one of the top rated posts of the year. See more here.
2. PINK
Don’t try to argue with me about Gun Control. Have someone walk into your home in the middle of the night, find yourself with no way to protect your family…and then tell me that gun ownership for responsible, decent people is a bad thing…well, if you live through the experience to have a conversation after.
We have other guns, however I’d wanted something old school, simple and straight forward. I love this gun. Yes, and it’s pink! For families with small children in the house, extra caution would be prudent but my feeling is that if the average idiot can have a gun to help them rob, rape and kill…then surely I can, too. When guns are taken away from all the criminals, let me know…then we can revisit the topic. Until then, carry on.
3. BARBIE
I’d seen all kinds of crazy Barbie makeup videos, and totally thought it would be a blast to try! Videos are a lot more work than one would initially think. It’s actually super fun, but time consuming.
4. REBEL
This was the easiest, 5 minute fashion post ever. This shot got more hits than anything else, so I had to add it to the list. When people ask for their photo to be taken, they need to understand that it’s about angles, lighting and makeup. Yes, makeup. When people want their photo with no makeup, they wonder why they don’t look fabulous like they do in their mind. It’s makeup. Then lights, camera, action! The best is when people just let me do whatever I want to them.
5. #NORDYGIRL
I used to work in fragrance. I still love fragrance more than anything! Scent is power and power is good…that’s my motto! I took this photo for work of a bottle I’d had etched with #nordygirl on it! Love the shot!
6. DAVID YURMAN COUTURE
I’d picked up this ring from the jeweler and it was fabulously new and clean again! It’s a lavender amethyst from David Yurman Couture and I love her. I decided to try and photograph her while she was sparkly!
7. ESHAKTI
I was recently thrilled to get the opportunity to partner with Eshakti.com. This is an online fashion house that enables each woman to order her selections, and submit her order for a custom fit and design! They have pants and tops as well as dresses.
In my case, I measured myself and submitted my less-than-perfect measurements along with my dress preferences. You can choose sleeve type, length of dress, etc as well as them using your personal measurements.
I decided on this fabulous jail house striped number because it’s a different look for me, and I knew that although for work, I have to have sleeves, I knew throwing a jacket on top during the workday would help me to get more use out of my new dress.
I wore this and got numerous compliments from friends and strangers on the bold design. This dress has pockets and flares a bit for a fun, retro look and seriously, since I don’t have hips anyway, it made me look more curvy which isn’t a bad thing! I paired it with a fun, glass lollipop necklace to complete my fun summer look, and of course Michael Kors shoes and a pink bag. Click the photo above to see the entire post.
8. SHALIMAR FOR THE APOCALYPSE
I have always loved Guerlain perfumes. My mom would buy them for me as gifts from about 4th grade and up. A much younger friend was making fun of an Instagram post in which there was a bottle of Shalimar in the background. Of course, I had wanted to show her that not only did I have a bottle of old school, high class Shalimar… but I also had enough to last me through an Apocalypse. ( And by “Apocalypse” of course I mean the pending step forward of the Anti-Christ, the fall of the world economy and the months long outage of our electrical grid, as we all have to scrounge for food and safety for months or years.) But hey, it will all be ok, because I have my Shalimar. And tons of Ramen Soup packages.
9. STREET GLAM
10. RICK SPRINGFIELD
I had nothing to do one Tuesday night. My husband called and had to work late, but suggested I go to the Rick Springfield and Loverboy concert for fun. Hmmmm….for fun I went online and discovered that if you only need one ticket, often you can get really great seats! After purchasing a ticket in the 5th row, I rented an Uber and actually went to this concert. Alone. I had a really great time! I am not much of a concert person so it took all I had to make myself go. People couldn’t believe that I went alone, strangers asked who I was with and friends couldn’t believe I went alone. I am a “grown damn woman and I will do what I want” as one of my old friends always says. Anyway, I took this shot with my Rebel and made it home by 10:30.
11. SURPRISE KISS
So this is a bit dirty. My husband was taking a few shots and of course the dogs get around me so we decide to scoop them up and try to take a nice photo. In attempting to kiss poor Bella’s snout as I’m juggling a super pudgy Jazzy…Bella surprises me with her long, gooey tongue and she literally jammed it into my mouth. Ugh. Disgusting, but she meant well. Jazzy only is worried about whether or not food will be involved somehow.
12. JOHNNY WAS
I began working for Johnny Was Clothing this year and have totally fallen in love with the lines they create! This photo was from the first post I’ve done featuring one of their dresses that I love! Click the photo for more.
-SDS
dress by Forever 21, shoes by Steve Madden, bag Michael Kors, lip color is Miley Cyrus (kill me now but I love the color)
A lot of times, I opt to say nothing when I blog, because I must be careful of my mood. If someone recently has made me into a negative mindset, then I best say nothing because I have been known to vent.
I also tend to be bothered by the fact that Blair Eadie never says anything, I mean anything, on her blog…yet her top competition says an awful lot on Cupcake and Cashmere. I see the merit in both. I try to be myself….well, I am myself and there’s nothing I can do about that…but I try to learn from the partnership and collaboration efforts of these two who are completely different from each other in the ways they have created their empires. I think Blair keeps her mouth shut to keep it serious and about the fashion, but I’m an everything person so it’s about the fashion, the price point, the makeup, a bargain sometimes and beauty, nature, food and such. Because of this, I find it hard sometimes to offer no thoughts.
Most people have no clue why some of us “blog.” I think most people will agree…photographing yourself is the most terrible part! Worrying about being judged incorrectly is a hassle. Most of blogging is not about look at me, aren’t I fabulous….it’s more about look at these cool Gucci glasses, cheap dress and blue nails…isn’t this fun?! It’s about personal ideas and viewpoints.
I spent a few days in Dallas in which my step mother made plenty of remarks about my blog life. Questions such as “Who takes the pictures?” or comments like “Your face looks airbrushed” or “How much money do you make?” I think the funniest part, is that while people don’t really get it, they all want their photo shoot and makeup done. Ugh. Primarily, the blog helps to expose what I do, who I am and what I enjoy. It’s a platform for beauty and cosmetics experience, photography work, and years spent in fashion, decor and real estate.
Mainly, as hard as it sometimes is, my very hyper husband takes the photos. I do not believe in airbrushing. I do, however, believe in great angles, lighting and of course…makeup. I have very pale skin so in a flash or sunlight, I glow like an angel, therefore, since the light is reflective on pale skin, I pretty much just take good pictures. Oh, and I am a makeup artist. As far as how much money I make, that is complex. I do a lot of different things so there are different income streams. The trick in life is developing income streams and minimizing outgoing expenses! (Hence, the $23 dress from Forever 21) I am currently scaling back on work efforts and narrowing my focus.
This month, was weird for me. I did too much for too long and sort of imploded. Our house is totally torn up right now with a remodel project that should be done by the end of the week, and I am starting work for a new company at the end of the week as well, and I am totally excited about it! The name of the company I am going to is Johnny Was, and I will be blogging a lot of Johnny Was fashion in the future!
I am to the point in life, where I am being me…in every way possible. I’m smart, but I don’t need to look smart to be happy. If I want a chicken coup in my back yard, then I damn well will get a chicken coup and fancy chickens with hair feathers! (Everyone thinks this is weird, by the way.) Years ago, my husband and I had a tons of Emu pairs laying eggs on our farm. I would collect the huge green eggs and incubate them, eventually helping give life to zillions of emu chicks! It was the coolest thing ever! I had a room set up like a lab with about 5 incubators cooking about 125 eggs all at any given time. Maybe this is why I’m hell bent on setting up a chicken house now. That, and having eggs for the apocalypse I suppose. My husband is completely against my chicken proposal but when I ask him why I can’t have a few chickens…he can’t give an answer. (I think he’s scared of them or the commitment they bring.) The point though, is that I do what I want.
Some days, I want to be comfortable and fun…like this day. I bought this black dress from Forever 21 with the sole intent of wearing it around the house. It’s comfortable and stretchy and presentable. It appears that I have spoiled my husband and now he fully expects me to be somewhat presentable and a little sexy at all times. However, this looked so cute that I decided to wear it out a few times before I retired it to the “house moo moo” collection. It literally cost about $23. We decided at the last minute to go somewhere so I got ready in 35 minutes. At what age should one put away animal print Steve Madden platforms? I’m not sure. The last two weeks have been a total whirlwind for me and it was sort of a Fuck Everything day. We went down the street to Old Town Spring to grab a snack and a beer and enjoy the Christmas decorations. I don’t need to look serious, because I already am so serious that it hurts about things that matter…God, love, finances, health, the future, sex and relationships …but not necessarily in that order!
-SDS
YOU MAY HAVE MISSED…
1. TAMARAC PARK, THE WOODLANDS
2. REBELLIOUS
3. ESHAKTI
This shot is from a post on my Facebook page.
I just spent two hours at Legacy Prep School in The Woodlands with KS Tennis since it was the last day of the season. Kids are adorable but have ZERO filter, so these are the questions I was asked;
Kids: Are you rich?
Me: No.
Kids: Are you sure? You look rich.
Me: Pretty sure. I am wearing Chanel lipstick in “Arthur”…so I guess I look rich.
Kids: Do you have kids?
Me: No.
Kids: Why not?
Me: Because Coach Ken is too old.
Kids: But he’s really good with small kids!
Me: Well then if someone leaves one on our doorstep, I guess we’ll keep it .
……..so then these kids start explaining how to foster babies and sometimes you get to keep them! I’m good…I promise!
5. BARBIE MAKEUP
I have worked in cosmetics for years and decided to work on a fun, Barbie style makeup tutorial for my YouTube channel!
6. DEL FRISCOS GRILL / HUGHES LANDING
We were excited to be invited to a VIP party at the new Del Frisco’s Grill in The Woodlands last week! The views are amazing, the food is top notch and we had a really, really good time. The restaurant design is fantastic and it’s a very romantic, yet industrial look and feel. I will be doing a blog posting on the new Hughes Landing area of The Woodlands very soon with more photos.
Eshaki dress, Michael Kors shoes, bag, and watch, Waste Not Want Not Creation necklace, Tiffany & Co bracelet, Jacket (previously seen)
I was recently thrilled to get the opportunity to partner with Eshakti.com. This is an online fashion house that enables each woman to order her selections, and submit her order for a custom fit and design! They have pants and tops as well as dresses.
In my case, I measured myself and submitted my less-than-perfect measurements along with my dress preferences. You can choose sleeve type, length of dress, etc as well as them using your personal measurements.
I decided on this fabulous jail house striped number because it’s a different look for me, and I knew that although for work, I have to have sleeves, I knew throwing a jacket on top during the workday would help me to get more use out of my new dress.
I wore this and got numerous compliments from friends and strangers on the bold design. This dress has pockets and flares a bit for a fun, retro look and seriously, since I don’t have hips anyway, it made me look more curvy which isn’t a bad thing! I paired it with a fun, glass lollipop necklace to complete my fun summer look, and of course Michael Kors shoes and a pink bag.
This was so cool and the price wasn’t more than if you went to a store and forced your body into something less complimentary. (Just because you can get it on, doesn’t mean it looks good. Just sayin.)
Eshakti is perfect for people that have a form that is a little out of the box. Need a little more room due to your plastico or your JLO? I have a very dear friend that’s like a sister. When I first met her, I often wondered how it is that all of her clothes look painted onto her Jessica Rabbit shape? For me, if I have to buy something bigger for my top half, it usually is too baggy and unflattering everywhere else. I finally realized that my friend was having all of her clothing altered! Custom fit clothing really makes a lot of difference in the way you look.
There are tons of dress and ordering options, so check out Eshakti.com by clicking the link below!
-SDS